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Jana Norris's avatar

Don’t be afraid - the rain brings rebirth, and if it points out weak areas of your castle that start to leak it gives you an opportunity to intervene before they overwhelm you. And Ben should have bought that cool jacket. Even without it, you are right. He is still arrestingly handsome. Happy Valentine’s Day my friend❤️

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Amy Pearl's avatar

Beautifully written, as always your writing style is captivating. Ben looks and is amazing. I am glad you found each other. You are lovely Alice. Happy Valentine's Day! 💘

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Liz Bergt's avatar

I agree, Ben should have that jacket ❤️

I understand this melancholy you describe. I’m losing my amazing father in slow motion, it feels. Like you, I just have to focus on what I have in my hand at this moment. And trust I’ll be ok when I don’t.

This is a beautiful ode to love. I’m so glad you found it.

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Alice Carbone Tench's avatar

I love how you describe it. Trusting you’ll be okay when you don’t.

Love you. Holding you and your father. 💕

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Alice Carbone Tench's avatar

I knooowww! It was a vintage clothing store in Santa Barbara. I don’t think he has read this piece yet — hence seen the the published photo. Oh well…

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Raven / Beth's avatar

This is so deeply moving,Alice… thank you for sharing such raw and honest feelings. Ben looks amazing in that jacket!

Some believe that our souls choose the life we are born into in order to experience the things we need most for our spiritual growth. It’s an interesting concept that I sometimes struggle to accept. Does anyone have thoughts or opinions on this theory?

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Gail Miller's avatar

Loved your latest letter. ❤️

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Gail Miller's avatar

My mom died last week, and your words were especially poignant, Alice. xo

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Raven / Beth's avatar

My heart goes out to you, Gail. 💜💔💜

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Gail Miller's avatar

Thank you, Beth❤️

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Allison Larkin's avatar

Oh, this is gorgeous and brought tears to my eye. Happy Valentine’s Day, beautiful friend! ❤️

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Susan M Turnbull's avatar

I suppose the uncertainty of what rain brings us can parallel thoughts hidden in the back of our minds. Fears. Those “what if’s”, they tend to get me once in awhile; I’ve learned to push them away. Embrace the here and now, live in the moment.

I like Jana’s idea of rain bringing us a sense of rebirth.

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Jeannie Anthony's avatar

Hi Alice Happy Valentine's Day to you and Ben, I'm so glad you're starting to feel better and pray for your continued recovery. I read your post and must admit it made me cry. It really touched my heart and I appreciate that you would share such personal feelings. I wish you sunshine to warm your soul and make you smile, as well as happiness, peace and good health. I am so happy to be one of your followers, take care 🌹🩷💝❤️

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Mckertzee's avatar

Beautiful, Alice ❤️

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